Colossians 3:14-16
14 Above all,
clothe your selves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the
peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body
you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.
16 Let the message about Christ, in all
its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom
he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts.
Thankfulness is quite the
concept. In scripture we are told to praise God and thank Him in all circumstances.
But how do we thank Him in the hard times? And not just the hard times, but the
really hard times. The times where you are so mad and fed up with the people
around you that you just want to run away. The times where you literally just
want to hide from the world and pretend it doesn’t exist, bury your face in the
pillows and not move. The times you feel like your body could actually explode
with emotion and be a river of tears and hot lava. The times that you feel like
you can’t go on another day, facing the same old strife once again. How do you
thank Him in your despair? And why should we thank Him when our world is more
difficult than we ever thought possible?
I’ll answer “why” first.
We thank Him when things seem impossible because it instantly causes our minds
to shift focus. We start looking for the good parts of life. Do me a favor; look
down at the ground. Do it! Nobody’s watching. Even if they are, they’ll just
think you found something interesting. Look down. What do you see? Feet, dirt,
carpet. Can you see anything in your peripheral vision when you are looking
down? Probably not much. Can you see anything above you when you are looking
down? Nope. Can you see anything directly in front of you while you are looking
down? Hardly. Now look up. What do you see? Everything. All of a sudden your vision
is so much clearer. You can see in all directions at once. What does this
lesson in vision have to do with thankfulness you might ask? When life gets
heavy, we tend to only see the heavy part which is illustrated as looking down
at the ground. When life is heavy, you can’t see where you are going, you can
only focus on what is “down there”, but once you lift your head up and start
thanking God for things in your life, you see things from a whole new
perspective. That’s why we thank Him in the hard times.
So how do we thank Him in
the hard times? Start at the basics: “Thank you, God, for my children. Thank
you, God, for my husband. Thank you, God, for giving me breath in my lungs
today. Thank you, God, for the sunshine. Thank you, God, for food to eat.” Keep
going until your attitude changes. It will change! Thankfulness is powerful!
I tried to add just a smiley, but it wouldn't let me. Anyway, that's a good one. :-)
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